Communication and love in your relationship are long gone

Constant fighting, hot and cold moments that repeat themselves, break-ups and needy validation from others—all signs that you're stuck in feelings of anger one moment, then sadness and isolation in the next.  

Questioning our own judgement in the face of conflict, or whether we are right or wrong in tough situations—there's a serious lack of self-esteem, confidence, and self-worth.

Over-analyzing situations will lead to excessive thoughts. The intellect is strong, and if we don't cultivate spirit it will overpower our will and make us freeze up with indecision.